Thursday, January 21, 2010

the angel has been called home

I have to tell my readers about the huge loss in my life .........

The readers of my food blogs do not know about my daughter , but this is the time i cannot hold this to myself....

Mithi , my angel daughter , is no more with us in this world....

She breathed her last on the 31st of Dec....

Her last moments were not as painful as the rest of her life..

She wanted to go silently it seems , she could understand my voice and my touch till the last .... i hope she is happy now.

 I am feeling a huge vacuum in my life , even though i had been praying God to give her freedom from the pain ....my prayers were answered and still my heart aches ... and refuses to believe she is not around.....

I know i will never be able to touch her , to kiss her and to take her in my arms..........but she is in my heart n my soul......she is a part of my flesh n blood now.....she will be there in whatever i do in life...

I thank all of you friends for including Mithi in your prayers....she is the Angel who touched our lives and our hearts.....i believe it was for a purpose.

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  1. Dear Sangeeta,
    I am speechless write now..I know my words have their limitation. Somewhere I was getting a feeling, things are not right at ur place... I have always prayed for Mithi whenever I remembered you and like you said..she has reached the right place. I can understand what you must be going through and I am finding it difficult to type as I am not able to see the keyboard.. Your last sms to me came by some other number, when I called back it went to a friend of mine in Bhopal. Can u please sms me again so that I can call u.Please do this at ur covenience.
    My prayers for Mithi. God give her peace where ever she is and I will sincerely pray keep her with u always so that she can grow spiritually and uplift her soul to higher levels.

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  2. We are so sorryy to hear about your loss! Condolence from the tummies!

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  3. Dear Sangeeta,

    I feel so touched and profoundly sorry for you and for your family for this unbearable loss you're undergoing.

    May God give you and your family, all the courage, strength and support you'll need to overcome such immense pain in you.

    May peace be with your little angel Mithi. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Courage!!!

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  4. Dear Sangeeta, I am deeply sorry about your loss...I am literally not with myself now, as I can truly understand your pain and boundless love towards your daughter..out of words...Our prayers are with Mithi, you & your family, may her soul rest in peace now...As a mother you are so courageous & brave to even put down your feelings in words...I am even scared by the thought of loosing my loved ones..I and my co-author were just talking about you few days back when we did not see you here in blogger's world..

    At this tough time of life, May GOD bless you with all the understanding, much needed love & care..to you and all in your family..

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  5. Dear Sangeetha,
    I am really shocked to hear this. I am really speechless and in tears. I know how you feel, please believe that is she happy wherever she is. Trust me, your little angel Mithi is going to come to you soon. Take care my dear. My prayers and hugs are always with you.

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  6. Dear Sangeetha, I am sorry about your loss...may God bless you and your family with courage during these difficult times.

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  7. I know words are not enough to soothe your aching heart but remember we all are here for you when you need to talk. The angel is up there looking at her mom and make sure she sees you always with a smile.

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  8. Dear Sangeeta, I do not know what to say, I am speechless and in tears for the moment. I can understand how hard it must be for you and your family. So sorry to hear about this. My prayers for Mithi and for you and your family. May God be with you, dear. As long as Mithi is in our thoughts and prayers, she is not really gone, right? Be strong, Sangeeta.

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  9. Dont know how to console you. In my tradition, they say that the lost angel comes back to its mom again. The same child will be born to you again and everything will be happy here onwards.

    I'm first time to your blog. Write as much as you can about Mithi and talk to people about her. DOnt suppress your feelings. This will heal your pain.

    This was sugested to me by a doctor, when I had a stillborn baby. Feelings should not be supressed.

    Let it out to us, where are here for u. Mark my words, Mithi will be born again to you, soon.

    Take Care

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  10. Dear Sangeeta,

    Words can't describe but that's the only way to tell you that my heart goes to you and your family....We can only imagine what as a mother u r going thru right now, your pain & emptyness can not be filled with these words but as U said she's at better place now. Was worried from so many days as u wrote in your other blog that Mithi was not doing good, there are certain things which are in God's hand only, my prayers are with you & no doubt that little angel will always be there in our hearts & prayers, whenever we will think about you......i'm really sorry for your loss.....take care

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  11. Sangeeta, I'm sorry. I have no words now. I feel for you. God bless her soul.

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  12. I regularly visit your blog but seldom comment. I'm so very sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my prayers. May god bless you and give you the strength to face this.
    Take care...

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  13. I dont know what to say .. May God bless her soul and wherever she goes may she has a happy and healthy life.

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  14. Sangeeta like all others am also in loss of words.am shocked and speechless. I was thinking about you for quite sometime but never would have thought of this. am a new mom and am scared even to think anything like this happening to any mom. sometimes God is so bad...but today I pray to him to give strength to you and your family to bear this huge loss. May God rest her soul in peace.

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  15. Dear Sangeetha, I lack words to comfort you. Just know that God will bring back to you bountiful happiness and you will rejoice one day. That the void of this loss will stay forever cannot be denied, but please gather courage and face your future. may GOD hold the little child in His mercy forever. May He give this mother the strength to support the rest of the family.

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  16. I am truly sorry for your loss, Sangeeta. I am at a total loss for words and can only imagine your pain. May God give her soul peace and yes your angel is in heaven. May God give you the strength and courage to go through this pain he has inflicted upon you and your family. God bless.

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  17. Dear Sangeeta...i am feeling very sorry for ur loss...i am speechless...but i can only say that mithi vl always remain with u...she was a very special soul send by god 2 be with u for sometime. She had come for some purpose and i am very sure that right now she is a angel and leaving happily with god and watching you always from heaven and will be with u always.

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  18. i hope you get the strength to deal with this terrible time. this too shall pass.

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  19. All these years you have taken care of a tiny bud and nurtured it.Now, the time has come for the flower to reach where it truly belongs to...THE LOTUS FEET OF THE ALMIGHTY...cherish the memories sangeeta

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  20. I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you find the courage to be strong...

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  21. Oh my god sangeeta, I am so sorry and i really dont know what to say, i sincerely hope that god gives u enough strength, truly sorry my dear!

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  22. Very sorry to hear this Sangeetha... There are no words to console you and indeed you should noy let the pain and vacuum consume you!!! All we can be sure about is that your lil Angel does not pain any more... she will always be with you!!! Keep brave dear!!! We are all there!!!

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  23. I visit but never commen on your blog, if I say I understand your loss, Iam wrong, I can't even fathom what you are going through..pls. write more about whatever you are feeling, we are all here to listen... Iam truly sorry and hope you find the strength to come back.

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  24. words cannot describe or express the amount of sorrow and sadness that I felt after reading the sad news right now. I my heart and my emotions are with you and your family for every single moment of unhappiness that you face. We all are with you together in this. Do feel free to share anything you wish to. Please take care of yourselves and others.

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  25. Really sorry to read this. Please take care and may god give you all the strength.

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  26. Ther is no need for you to thank me....I just happened to be around. And as far as this book and passage is concerned, it will be some time before I will be able to stop thinking about it...

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  27. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and its hard to find the right words..your little angel is free now from the sorrows and pain of earthen life. May you and your family find all the strength and braveness to go through this..I keep you in my prayers and thoughts and wish you all the best...

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  28. Hi! Come back now! You've had enough time off. We need you back!

    We miss you!

    We will start crying if you don't come back now!

    :)

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  29. Dear Sangeetha, How are you doing dear. Please start to resume blogging. Like my sister Devasena mentioned, try to say as much as you can about Mithi. We are here to hear everything and for you also. Take care da.

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  30. Sangeetha,
    I just came to know about your loss after seeing your comment in A2ZVegeterian cuisine. Please allow me to offer you my heartfelt sympathy. I am very much upset and sad to hear about your loss. :(

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  31. Am so sorry to hear abt this sangeetha,just by reading it i am feeling really sad then i can understand what u must be going through...May her soul rest in peace and u do take care of your self...do come back soon..

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  32. I am numb with sorrow..don't know what to say...
    I had a healthy girl child but my family made her suffer just because she was a girl...its been traumatic for me & her both.
    http://kshama-bikharesitare.blogspot.com
    Writing about my life & times...you may find it soothing perhaps.

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  33. I know there are no words that could ever make you feel better,I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.Peace and blessings to you.Sending you love hugs!

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  34. sangeeta, i know there are some questions to which we never get an answer, but there is a part of life that remains yet to be unfolded, a life ahead with family who love you a lot and cant see you broken and friends like us who cant wait to know what you will dish up on the new post..

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  35. Hi dear Sangeeta,

    I am a silent reader of ur blog.U always amazed me with your healthy recipes.Today also I just opened ur site and I was really shocked.Very sorry darling.I also came through the similar situation once.Only the body of our loved ones will leave us.Their heartfelt love and soul will always be with us forever.I am believing like this.Be strong dear.

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  36. when people say we can understand your pain and what you must be going through believe me they have no idea. but dear friend i can for i hsve been in your shoes. Take care of yourself and your husband.

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  37. Hey sangeeta...hope ur fine now...take care of ur self and family...mithi is always with u in what ever u do...she will be happy to see you happy, so please try to be happy so that when she sees it she also smiles

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  38. I'm so sorry, Sangeeta. Our thoughts are with you.

    Brad and Sarah

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  39. Dear Sangeeta,
    I just discovered your blog and want you to know I appreciate your generosity sharing delicious healthy easy for me to understand recipes I want to make.
    In sympathy for your loss,
    Lynda, Toronto, Canada
    (PS Though not the cuisine I grew up with from my own family, I have been making Indian/Pakistani food for 40 years (I'm 57) and put a lot of effort into making healthy food from scratch with good results.)

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  40. Sangeetha, come back to ur blog. Start focussing on something. Life has to go on, atleast for ur family

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  41. Sangeeta, There are no words that I could say that would comfort you. I can only imagine what it would be like to lose a child....My family extends to your family our love and prayers during this most difficult time.

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  42. Sorry to hear about your loss. Remembering you all in prayers.

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  43. Very sorry to hear that sangeetha,Hope I could help u come out of this terrible loss and comfort u with my words...I can only pray to god to give u enough strength to pull u and ur family out this misery...May ur angel's soul rest in peace..Take care..

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  44. I really don't have any words to console you my friend, its very painful to read those words, you typed up there. My sincere prayers to you and your family for this heavy loss, may the soul rest in peace.

    I was just wondering...why you disappeared from blogging, when I saw you in orkut today...just felt like checking your space' never thought things went like this...feeling very terrible, right now. Wish more stregth and peace to you, please take care.

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  45. So sorry to hear about your loss Sangeetha. My thoughts are with you.

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  46. Dear Sangeeta,

    I just stumbled across your blog and I am very sorry to hear about your daughter. I hope God gives you the strength to cope with this loss.

    God bless her and may she be in peace and happiness whereever she is.

    Take care

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  47. Dearest Sangeeta I am so sorry for your loss no words to say heres a big hug
    Much Love Rebecca

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  48. dear sangeeta, so sorry to hear about your loss... like you said she's more a part of you now than ever before. i cannot even begin to imagine your pain. i hope god gives you the strength to take each day as it comes and to move on as you must. god bless you and your family.

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  49. Dear Sangeeta.
    No words can discribe my feeling right now...
    So sorry my friend for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family...
    I want to tell you something... God needed an extra Angle for his Kingdom, so he picked your Mithi. She is very happy in Heaven, and looking after all of you. She loves you all.
    God will take your sorrow away, and replace it with peace and rejoice

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